My 3 and a half day weekend is over. I spent most of the weekend hanging out with Derick when I could. Several of his friends were usually around keeping him company. Wenesday we went to the Plaza. Ran by Cheeseburger Jerry, Apple store, and to a movie. We saw Balls of Fury which looked pretty hilarious in the trailer. It was a total let down. Don’t go see it. Thursday I can’t remember what happened. Hmm wonder why that is? Friday we left the ICU for Culvers…mmm Butter Burger. Went out for some AMF bowling. That was fun…and loud and dark. Definitely didn’t help the dizzy feeling this whole situation gives ya. I don’t think I scored over 100 either game. I was going for the crowd pleasers and for the most part was sucessfull. The highlights(for me at least) was when the jukebox played ACDC’s ”Shoot to Thrill” and Joe Diffie’s “John Deer Green”. I payed an extra buck to hear ACDC’s song play immediately. We left before we got to hear the rest of the song choices. We went back to my house for a PlayStation3 session that lasted till 3am. I’m still trying to recover. Saturday I wasn’t able to get up there as early as I would have liked because Morée was at work. We got there late. Fortunately we showed up for the circus courtesy of Derick and gang. They concocted quite the art installation. There were patio chairs and tables leaning, dangling, and seemingly frozen in the strangest positions. Quite the site to behold. I guess they got bored with that. They then decided to make a chariot. The 4 wheels were the gigantic patio tables…yes all of this outdoors just outside ICU. :) Did I mention the 30 tacos Haley brought? haha
As far as Nick goes its still bad. Many things have happened since my initial post that he was in an accident. He is still in the coma and still on a life support. The damage to his brain stem seems to be the focus. Doctors are running reflex test every hour. These test determine what the status of his brain stem is. I believe he has responded to these a few times but not 100%. I’m sure some part of this is not completely accurate so don’t quote me.
Over at Facebook someone created a “Pray for Nick” group. It is great seeing how many members the group has. Last I saw it was over 600. The comments and pictures posted are warming and good reminders of the impact Nick has had on us thus far. I would link to it but the site is banned here at work. Plus you probably already know about it.
This is going to be tough no matter how it turns out. Obviously continue to pray for this situation. Its good to keep in mind that the most difficult part will likely be whatever the outcome is. It is great to see the outpouring of support from friends and family but we need to remember that this will be needed in a extended fashion. Nothing is worse than the load the family will be handed after this and its important that the Family of God is there in that time.